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Dating Safety Tips
- Have their real name, address, phone number and place of employment.
- Let someone you know and trust locally know what you are doing. Give them the information about the person you are going to meet. Set up a safe call for a specific time. After you have made the call set up another call for a later time. Have a code word so if you need an out or help you'll have it.
- Make sure that your safe call person has your itinerary.
- Meet in a public place where there will be plenty of people around if you should require assistance.
- After you meet take a few minutes to talk and get comfortable with this person. If you can't get comfortable this may not be a good situation. Question yourself: "Do I feel comfortable? Do I wish to continue?"
- Don't get into using alcohol or drugs, this is a time you may need a clear head to think quickly.
- If the situation gets out of hand find a reason to leave or a way out. Don't stay thinking it will only get better. Chances are it won't.
- When you do leave make sure you are not followed. If you feel that you are then go to the nearest Law Enforcement Facility.
- Remember it is easier to walk away before a situation gets out of hand.
- Only accept what you have negotiated for the first meeting. Never accept abuse, at the first sign of it leave because it will not get better.
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